Ingrown hairs

So I’ve been getting Brazilians for about a year now and I still get pretty bad ingrown hairs. The reason I started getting waxed was to stop the ingrown hairs but I honestly feel like it’s 10X worse than before I started getting waxed. I do all the tips my wax lady has given me; I exfoliate every 3 days, moisturize with a moisturizer that won’t clog my pores, and pluck ingrown hairs if I can but they still keep appearing. I have some scaring now and I hate it so much. Any advice?