I really need some advice

Things aren’t good with my husband, ever since I moved to Tunisia we have lived with his mother and now that I have an 11 month old baby thing shave changed. I can’t live there anymore and I’m in an apartment now just me and the baby. I don’t like the way most people are here no offence to anyone who’s from there but I don’t like the way some people treat others. He is coming here tonight because he wants to talk but I’m not going back to living with his mum. Me and the baby were in a room with no toilet no kitchen, I had to get him looked after every time I wanted to go to the toilet or cook something, not to mention his mother’s house is full of neighbours 24/7 and it’s just not the lifestyle I want. How do I explain to him that I’m not being unreasonable. He keeps saying I knew he had to live with his mum from the beginning but that’s not how I see it, we had a baby things can change. Men are so controlling here with their Arabic wife’s and I’m sure it angers him that I don’t take the way he is sometimes. I’m not being controlled and my son comes first. He constantly says he has to be there incase something happens but who lives their life like that. Incase. His brother and his wife live 2 seconds across the road, she has her niece with her and her daughter is a ten minute taxi ride. I need to be ready to fight my corner and just need some advice on what to say.