What should I do?

It was our 9years Wedding Anniversary yesterday. He did not do or plan anything except asking me for a dinner. Sorry Mamas, but I am so tired to him not planning ahead of time. I’m aware I need to do my part too which I did. I told him months ago that I’d rather cook in advance and go picnic somewhere because now we have a child that we don’t need surprises without planning. I was pissed yall. The last time he surprise me was 7years ago. The rest we just eat out. Now we have a child I thought we will make it the most family day on our special day. I was wrong. Now I kept the resentment and today he tries to offer things and places to go. Too late. I know my pride is high. But boy, I never left the house since I gave birth. My focus is always on him and the baby. He works around the clock. I felt abandoned. I told him my feelings and now he said he is trying to adjust. I’m just jealous I guess to some couples that go places or surprise each other. I just thought he would appreciate me being a SAHM but I guess it’s just me. I will accept any truthful and painful advice.