That hurt 😢

So after talking to this guy and spending time with him for almost 3 months , I have a serious talk with him today. Because his communication has been a little different. After talking he says he will explain over dinner later. I told him no tell me now, he says he can’t deal with a relationship right now. My heart dropped. About a month ago I brought it up he said let’s give it three months. Now all the sudden you can’t handle one. We’re still in the midst of the conversation but he’s at work. I feel crushed!!!! Like why date some one and go out, etc with no intentions at all. No goal at all. I think men do this so they can continue saying that their single and keep their options open. This is really hard for me. 😞