Am I wrong???

My mind is COMPLETELY blown since yesterday evening. My head honestly hurts because I don’t understand my exs wife or why she acts the way she does but all I can figure is she’s textbook narcissist, mega toxic, and insanely insecure. I already made a post about her on here a couple weeks ago because she kept firing tiny shots at me and disguising them as humor. I never say anything about it but yesterday I finally did. She told me for the 6th or 7th time in 3 months, basically biweekly for the past 3 months, that my son doesn’t get to wear the good nice clothes over here. I mean honestly it’s mentioned and brought up a lot and I feel like at this point with being mentioned so often that it’s just an intentional rude ass unnecessary remark, I don’t even give a shit about their rule, whatever, there’s things I don’t want sent over there either because it was either expensive or something really cute or both. It’s the fact that the shit is brought up to me way too often. Always the same story about how he was “heartbroken” because “his daddy” wouldn’t let him wear this or that. Like damn! I might believe it if it were a fresh incident. Anyway I finally yesterday tell her that I’m not sure why it’s brought up so much. That’s LITERALLY what I said and she gets defensive and smart with me saying “I don’t need a smart remark when I’m telling you something.” My response “But you tell me that quite often. I’m not being smart. Only letting you know it’s unnecessary to keep reminding me about your clothes rule.” Sooo then she cussed me out and said I just “take things wrong” and they aren’t going to talk to me period about him now. … 🙄…. Ok. She tried to say she was mentioning it before my son did as one of her excuses and said “like how you brought up something one week” Um… I brought up that someone at YOUR house taught him to say “Suck my d!ck”… and he’s 6… so hell yeah I’m gonna have questions about that, and THAT is completely different than telling me he was sad AGAIN about not wearing clothes. I mean honest to God am I in the wrong here? Honestly. Because I’ve already made a whole post on this girl and our backstory maybe I can drop the link. Idk. But she is straight up trying to make me feel like shit for saying anything she didn’t like. I’m honestly baffled at how damn twisted some people behave.