He won’t do it for me but he’ll do it for her

I’ve been with my bf for years. I’ve been asking him for several MONTHS if he could follow me on Instagram. He kept saying yes but never did it. I even asked him while he was literally on the Instagram app and he didn’t do it. He kept saying he “forgot”, but he’s, for a fact, on there every day.

Yesterday he told me that he saw a girl from our high school. He didn’t follow her before but guess what? Now he does. Just that quick. I don’t care that he’s following her, I have no problem with her, it’s the fact that what I’ve been asking him to do for several months, he did for someone else in a day. He says he understands but … “I forgot”. I’m so sick of him always putting me last.

So now obviously I’m upset and he thinks it’s a good idea to force a cuddle. He kept grabbing me and forcing himself on me. I kept telling him to stop touching me, to leave me alone and he kept doing it. At one point, he was laughing while doing it. I told him I wasn’t joking.. he kept doing it and I had the fight out of his hold. I eventually yelled at him and told him to grow up. Wtf do I need a cuddle for? I need a MAN that listens to my wants and acts accordingly.

- yes his account is private. THIS IS NOT ABOUT INSTAGRAM OR INSTAGRAM FOLLOWERS, SHUT UP ABOUT THAT. THIS IS ABOUT ME HAVING TO ASK FOR SOMETHING FOR SEVERAL MONTHS, THAT HE THEN DID FOR SOMEONE ELSE IN A DAY! ITS THE PRINCIPAL. I DONT CARE ABOUT EVERYTHING ELSE.

- We’ve been together for 5 YEARS. If he’s unsure if this is “long lasting” then he needs to say that and leave me alone.