Am I being crazy or is it weird?

So my boyfriend has been at this job for about a year. It’s a cell phone job and that stuff takes awhile. And he’s never stayed late at work. Until recently. He’ll come home around 8:30 or 9pm and they close at 7. And when I ask him about it he gets heated tells me he’s not dealing with this shit and to get over how I feel. I understand shit happens but there is no communication between us so I have no idea what’s happening. He always says it’s the customers and he’s working with his boss who does everything by the book. But I genuinely don’t understand why it takes almost two hours to close up a phone place. But honestly correct me if I sound crazy because I know I can be. He could be telling the truth.

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Br

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Honestly I’d go there closing time if you’re “around the area” and catch him in the act :)

Be

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It could be innocent but the fact that he blows up is the concerning part. If he had nothing to hide, what’s the issue? Me and my partner both finish late sometimes but we’ll always fill each other in. Some people think that’s weird but it’s just respectful. Open communication is a must in any relationship

he

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Red flag!!!!!!! Definitely sketchy!

To

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The fact that he blows up is a red flag

As

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I think it’s weird that he gets so defensive and doesn’t have a legitimate answer as to why it’s taking him so long to get home. You’re not automatically accusing him of cheating but just asking because you’re concerned as any partner would be. It’s normal to get worried about your spouse being home late so it’s weird that he automatically gets defensive rather than having a legitimate reason as to why he’s late. I can understand sometimes customers come in close to closing time and may take up some time but there’s no way he’s dealing with customers for two hours after closing. People aren’t that ridiculous that they spend two hours shopping after a store closes.