how would you feel?

Currently I'm going through a period of very low libido.

Today my my partner told me that if I don't want to give him the things he wants - sex - then he's not going to give me things I want - respect, being treated as a person, chores done -

He said that's basically the same thing.

@Katelyn

Nope still here. These things are normal occurance in our relationship.

We are together for 8 years and we have a child together, there has been financial abuse and I don't know how to leave, though I'm seeing a counselor in a few weeks to help le with that.