Please can someone tell me what I should do :(

Me and my partner have been TTC for 2 years. It has finally happened, and now he’s decided it’s not convenient and he’s not ready anymore and that I have to get rid of it. He’s told me that’s the only decision and that if I don’t make that decision he will leave me. I’m so confused and heart broken as we had this perfect little life. It couldn’t be a better time in my eyes. He’s so manipulative and has such a way of making me feel like what’s he’s saying is for my best interest.. but I can’t help feeling like it’s not. My heart hurts, I’m so confused and I don’t know what I’m supposed to do. Do I sacrifice my life? Or do I just do what is convenient for him, even after all the trying we have done to get here? I don’t know anymore 😔