Am I overreacting?

So I found out I was pregnant really early on like 3 and a half weeks along. It’s my third pregnancy, but my second with my husband. We told family early on due to it being the third child. Fast forward some time, we did the sneak peek test and found out we’re having a GIRL! After having two boys, we are sooo happy! We FaceTimed our families and told them all. At the time, they acted happy. But my issue is, I’m a little upset and disappointed with my in laws. They have not called or check on us one time since telling them I’m pregnant. They barely even acknowledged our Facebook post when we announced. The ONLY time it’s been talked about with me being pregnant is when we told them in person and when we called them to tell them the gender. With our second, my husband biological first, they sent me so many things and checked on me all the time. I’m just annoyed that they act like they don’t care at all. What’s even more annoying is that they will act like they care so much once our girl is born. They’ll be at the hospital and posting but yet like didn’t even care or talk to me the whole pregnancy? Like so flippin annoying honestly.