14month old self weening

I am still breastfeeding my daughter and was wondering what are the signs that they are starting to self wheen she mainly just eats to go to sleep or will come once or twice eat for a bit then go play and then naps twice through out the day she still nurses a few times at night to some days but she will sign for milk and when I take the boob out she shakes her head no and then will repeat that she has been asking for real food to....I'm not ready for her to wheen yet lol I've enjoyed the bond and snuggles we've had this last year I'm scared that when she dosnt want to breast feed anymore we won't feel as close how was it for you ladies ?