Is there something wrong with me..?

Question

Sex does not feel good.. It feels like nothing and for example doggy is painful ?? Only slept with one boy and I'm 16, losing virginity was painful and bled. After sex I'm bloated and my stomach aches.
What is wrong with me? Do I need to get this checked out?

Answer

I reckon you might not be doing enough foreplay, so you may not be turned on enough. Do you masterbate? If so does that feel good? Maybe try doing other things until you feel very very turned on and really want penetration, and see how that feels. How attracted are you to the partner? Perhaps you don't fancy him? There is nothing wrong with you though. Sex is a very mental thing for a lot of people so maybe the numbness is something to do with how you are feeling.

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it gets better with someone you love though !

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thats happened to me when i first started to have sex. it wasnt pleasurable for me.

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It sounds like you need to be more turned on before you have sex. Fool around before more. When a woman gets turned on her vagina gets deeper. If you are getting stomach pains it's probably from him "hitting then end" when you have sex. Doggy style is a position tin which the guy can get very deep so that would definitely cause you pain. Just bring it up to your man. It shouldn't be a problem because it will just prolong the time you guys are being sexual. Good luck!

Is there something wrong with me..?

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