Has this ever happened to you?

Have you ever dated someone whose literally tired you crazy? Like instigated things or done things, get you mad, and than call you crazy when you react? What we’re your experiences? I’ve always kind of been a hot head but lately have become so irrational when my partner and I fight. He does things and always has but I’ve taken it for so long that now my tolerance is low and I blow up. He calls me crazy and I get so frustrated because I feel he makes me this way with how he acts! I’m so torn right now because am I really crazy? He sounds so convincing and next thing you know I’m there apologizing to him for acting out but I really feel he brought it out of me. Idk I’m so confused . Help me