Seriously frustrated...

Okay so some back story I've been in my apartment for 2 years and not only has my rent gone up $200 the 2 months (and now I can barely afford it) but I've also had my apartment egged. I've had eggs put on my car as well as ranch so in January when my lease is up I'm leaving bc I can't live here anymore! Well I told my boyfriend that I'm thinking about moving to my friends who lives 3 hours away bc she has a guest house I can stay in and she said she would help me out but he's like "well if you do that you know we won't last bc we both can't do long distance" and I'm just shocked bc I told him I plan on moving out and I was going to stay with my mom but she already has my sister and her 3 kids living there so I'd be sleeping outside in a shed (he knows about this) or I'd be having to hop from hotel to hotel if I stay down here and all he said was well you can just stay where you're at (he knows about my apartment and vehicle being vandalized). I want to pay off my medical debt with this year's income taxes bc I want to buy a house within the next 2 years and I want to save money but he does not want me staying with him and it kind of hurts me that he would rather me sleep in a shed or stay in this horrible apartment complex then stay with him for a while or go stay at my friends.. I feel like he's so repulsed at the thought of me staying with him that he would rather me be in a bad situation bc he's more worried about what he wants then me.