Should I have another talk with my husband or should I just leave it?

Question

Long story short, my SO owns a business. He lets his brothers gf make products and sell it. The thing that bothers me is that my SO does so much for his brother/his gf but they can’t even bother visiting the family. It’s like they don’t want anything to do with us and our 3 kids until they drop their stuff off with us or the past 2 baby showers/ messaging us when they got pregnant twice, showing up at our house to get baby clothes… Then they don’t want anything to do with us. 
I don’t even have their number… it’s like they don’t want to be bothered. 🤔

Answer

Not everyone is family-oriented. It doesn’t make you less of a person to not want to be around family all the time. As adults, we create our own families, seems like they have done so and have chosen to draw a line between family and business. I think you’re taking something that isn’t personal, personally.

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Your husband's kindness is not something to trade. "If you sell in his shop i expect you to visit me when I want you to". 
If you want something from them, ask them. Do not expect them to do it because your husband did something for them.
I find it weird people expect others to know that they want them to do something without telling them what they expect. Especially if it is a "i did something kind, now you have to do XYZ". If you do something kind, you expect a kindness of your liking in return? Takes the kind out of the action, doesn't it?

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I personally feel like if they have no relationship with you all your husband has no reason to help them sell stuff. If they show up just to pick things up you all have to give them and just go give you stuff to sell for them that's going out of your all's way for people who aren't interested in anything more than what they can get out of you in my opinion. I personally wouldn't want my husband helping a family member sell stuff if that family member had no relationship with us and never spoke to us for any other reason.

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you can't force them to have a relationship with you let it be

Answer

Reach out to them and arrange to spend more time with them, they probably haven’t even realised

Should I have another talk with my husband or should I just leave it?

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