God is so good. He is helping my hub to get back up after losing everything with a depression that came out of the blue. We got a fixer upper that he has been mostly single-handedly renovating with zero previous experience and a lil help from good friends for the past 3 years while working at Chipotle. We are now living in the finished bedroom in the attic while he finishes the main floor. His mom's friends have given us some useful hand-me-downs for baby so we will probably be spending more on natural childbirth and breastfeeding classes that I'm not sure if medicaid will cover. I have not figured it out yet as I have just migrated from the Philippines.