Am I an asshole for this? I feel like I’m leading her on? So there’s this insta fitness model with 300k+ followers who wouldn’t stop messaging me. She posted a post of her client complaining about not being able to lose 12 Ibs in 4 weeks, then I commented “I wish I can gain 12 Ibs in 4 weeks!”. She replied “I can help with that 😂. I’ll dm you”.

Ngl I thought she was just going to give me weight gain tips. I said “I’m a college student so it’s hard to find time to eat also dealt with an eating disorder. Tried eating a whole pizza box 2 times a week and didn’t help me gain anything”. She liked my comment and replied “no worries, as long as you can hit your macros at the end of the day that’s all I want from you”. “I have clients from all around the world who are nurses and firefighters who could find time to prepare and freeze their food, if they could do it then so can you”.

Then she said gave me prices of different packages and said she was going to collect my info like body type, height, weight, etc. the highest being $209. I didn’t reply for a day then she said “hello?”. I said “hey sorry I’ll think of it I can’t be 100% sure I’ll follow through with it because of not finding time to eat but I’m also a perfectionist and scared I’ll not hit my goal”. “She said no such thing as perfectionism, failure is a normal part of success”. “I said why not then I’ll give it a shot”. Then she sent a happy face.

I didn’t reply for a while then she said “Uh hello?” I said “sorry I’ll think of it”. She said “may I ask what exactly you’re thinking of? I thought you were ready!”. And ngl I thought that was too pushy. “So I said I was just thinking of what package to buy”. Then she said “let’s start with the second package which costs $188 that includes weekly phone calls to checkup with me and the meal/workout plan. Now I’m procrastinating answering her. Latest message she sent was “hello?” and I feel bad because I led her on. But I’m also scared of paying and not gaining anything.

Ugh help what do I do. I didn’t reply to her for a day now,