So I have two children and I absolutely love my child’s first dad and I’m not together with the seconds dad.

I’m guessing it’s time to let him live the life that I couldn’t give to him. (First dad). However I wanna know if it’s possible to not see him??? He wants to still have sex but not be with me yet still see his son every weekend and holidays. Baring in mind when my son goes their on weekends he is always out and leaves his son home. During holidays he is always at work and my sons still at home. Like days or weeks in the house without going outside.

I don’t want to stop him from seeing his child though I do want to not keep having sex and getting feelings and feeling all types of ways towards him for him to tell me we will never be again.

I have also thought about no physical contact for a few months at a time just stop working, struggle for a while and just be their for my two children.

I’m so confused and lost. Just don’t know what to do anymore.