Am I in the wrong?

My exbf sent me this:

“It very much looks like you're leaving. All the baby stuff is seems to be missing and the bathroom door was open to your sons room it looks a bit empty. I've been missing dad so I went to the closet and your late husband is gone too. Along with a lot of other stuff it feels like. You've been avoiding me for a while and not really returning hugs. Plus no inclusion on farm pictures. Without you telling me what's going on I have to assume that's what's coming”

He has been avoiding me the last week before he sent that. Wouldn’t hug or kiss me. Gave me the silent treatment. I tried to say hi and he’d just look at me and continue doing what he was doing. Before that week, if you knew the situation, you’d see every time I did try to talk to him, he would redirect the conversation in an immature way. Like say i told him I need to talk to you. He’d respond “about monkeys?” And then start talking about something completely different. I got frustrated and had a lot of stuff coming up, so I just stopped trying. He also tried to say he felt his sadness was rubbing off on me when it was the other way around. I never saw him cry but I would be laying in the couch sobbing and he wouldn’t say or even look at me. I feel like he’s doing reverse psychology as a way to manipulate me. That’s what my therapist said.

This is what I sent him:

“I tried to take pics at the farm but in each picture you didn’t seem like you wanted to even be there, you seemed unhappy, and you kept your distance from me the majority of the time we were there. You never seem to want to take pictures yourself or even want to hold my hand. I deserve someone who wants to be with me and not be ashamed of me. I’ve never been in a relationship where I’ve been treated like this. Also, you started avoiding me, and so I felt like you didn’t want me around. I don’t like feeling confused all the time. I can’t read you. There’s no compatibility. The grown up thing to do, is to accept that and move on. Also, After those messages you sent me while you were at work about sex that one night and the comments you made after the last few times we were intimate, idk… I’m just unhappy and I feel differently about all this. I catch on to patterns too. I’ve been through a lot and I’ve observed a lot and I’m not going to be manipulated into doing things I’m uncomfortable with and I don’t appreciate you being upset with me and ignoring my son. He came up to me the other day, and said you weren’t talking to him. He is a KID. I am on a list for an apartment but if you need me out sooner, I can figure something out.”

Am I wrong for explaining it like this? He blamed not holding my hand on my son. And denied being hateful towards my son even though I heard the whole thing.