I'm irritated because this is the their day I've broken out into hives and I'm pregnant with a toddler. Then my husband made me feel bad because I had to distract myself the last 2 days but that afternoon I went to urgent care and got meds. It only lasted an hour. But he called me a brat because that night I wanted to rest and asked him to turn the light off hut he could stay there with the loud TV and phone. And I let it go. Then today i guess he stayed up until 3 am playing his video game and I tried so hard to not wake him. My medicine wasn't ready so I broke out into really bad hives and it was burning and painful so I woke him up to take a warm shower because it causes some relief. Then he had an additude saying he never gets good sleep and he was being passive aggressive with me and I asked him to not talk to me that way because it hurts my feelings then he said it isn't always about me. He's ignoring me. The cherry on top is that his sister called him and she was there yesterday so he can unclog her toilet almost 2 hours away. And ok that's fine but he didn't even take me into consideration and after him being mean. So he's going to leave me here feeling this way and I can't even drive with our son and pregnant to unclog a toilet and I'm in so much pain. Nothing helps. I just feel had. I understand sometimes I have tot ale care of myself but I usually do when I'm sick. But idk I wish he'd not be this way and understand he shouldn't stay up without knowing he has a a wife that's sick and pregnant and have a toddler. If I could handle it i could but I honestly can't. I just feel so down and don't even know what to tell him how i feel. And I don't want to talk to him about just accepting to go far away when this is also "family day" and gets mad at me for making any plans this day and also I'm in terrible pain. I know that's his family but that bothers me too.