I left my husband last night. I took the kids and I went to my moms. It would’ve only got worse if I stayed with him. He finally pulled my last straw.

I needed him to tell his mom to stop talking about me, but he didn’t.

We were living at her house (my husband pays for it.. she is staying in another town) while our house is getting renovated (taking his sweet time because he loves staying at his moms house 🤦🏼‍♀️) so she thinks it’s okay to say whatever she wants to him about the kids.

Here’s three things she said. And I finally had enough.

(1.) I don’t want anyone but you (dad) to feed the kids please (basically she doesn’t want me to feed my kids only my husband)

(2.) Pretty please sleep in the same bed as the kids (I’ve been trying SO hard to get them to sleep in their own beds. My husband has been sleeping with them for the past going on 2 years and I get fed up with it. Now I know why. His mom told him he has to sleep with them)

(3.) Please pick up the baby from that room (my room) it is going to rot

I had it! I told my husband and he had a meltdown. He told me I was the problem. He told me that I need to stop going to church because it is not working out for me. That I need to stop putting his mom in the middle of problems that don’t even exist. 😒🫡

So am I in the wrong? Why do I feel so heartbroken and confused? We have 3 precious kids together, but he is so willing to give us up before standing up to his mom and making boundaries.

His mom is a narcissist. She is so manipulative and toxic! She brainwashed my husband so bad! She use to abuse him. She honestly still probably does!