Hello so today my husband and I agreed on keeping the gender a surprise till birth he already has a little boy before our marriage and I always wanted to not know till birth so I can enjoy my surprise blessing.! I waited all my life for you why not wait nine more months to see what beautiful blessing you may be.

His family says I should just keep it a surprise untill and do a gender reveal I have many reasons behind why I want to wait for example I’m high risk I suffer from many losses and I do but don’t want to have my hopes up but my faith is if that makes cense but idk am I being selfish am I wrong to want to wait till the arrival I honestly don’t feel I should even have to explain my reasons behind it it’s my baby not there’s one two 🤣😂

I’ll be back on here in couple months after baby’s born because if they think they gonna see my baby in person right away too they got another thing coming they luck if I allow it via zoom. 🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🥰🤗 I’m selfish I can’t wait I’m 32 waited all my life for my little blessing thank u 🙏🏼