me, 16 and ex, 16.

our relationship was crazy, he liked me for the longest (i’d say about a year) in 2019, then 2022 rolled around we both had relationships between then and after each one (he didn’t have a lot maybe three at max) he’d come and check in on me, and i was at a low point in my life so i really appreciated this. and he kept trying to get into a talking stage with me but i always thought he was a player. but i finally gave him a chance and fell head over heels for him, we started dating 11-21-21 three days before thanksgiving. then thanksgiving day i went over to see him for the very first time and his family loved me, his aunts called me pretty and it was just a great time. then later we both went on our first date. not just with eachother, but neither of us had a first date. we went to texas roadhouse and watched a movie at the theater. it was such an amazing time and probably my favorite memory, we had troubles and broke up around our five month mark and we were HATEFUL to eachother. it was horrible.

flash forward a few months to july 2022, i add him and we start talking again and he talks about how much he misses me. i had a trip to a swimming place i was planning on taking someone with, and so i decided to take him so we could chill out in person and talk things out and figure out what really happened and went wrong. we ended up working everything out and started dating july 15th. everything was a breeze from there and it was our best try at a relationship ever, he didn’t talk to any girls, unadded them all even after i said he didn’t have to, was such an amazing communicator and listener, everything was so peaceful and jsut loving and amazing. catch is, He himself is NOT the main problem. towards the end, his friends got in the way. most of his friends are younger than him except 2, and none of them have gfs. my bf is the one who had the most priorities and he didn’t know how to spread out his time. so we had to end things again, but so much more peacefully. we were eachothers first love and we’ll always look for eachother in other people, which i think is why we can’t find strong hard interest in anybody else, but i said i’d give it a year before trying anything else other than a friendship again. give him some growing maturity time.

we have eachother added as friends and talk often, not big conversations jsut here and there but their engaging and not dry. do you guys think if we try a third time in a year or two that it’ll work? that his only issue is immaturity? i believe so. bc we’re eachothers first love that we can make it work in the future? lmk. thanks so much !💕