Self sabotage or I actually don’t like this guy?

I’m at a point where I just don’t feel like I’m capable of loving someone. I feel like I’m just happy being single but I’m a bit too comfortable being single. Im at a point where I want to start dating but I don’t have the strength to deal with another heartbreak and I’m just focused on bettering myself and my future (im only 22). I started talking to this guy recently and I feel like I’m just constantly self sabotaging. It’s only been two months but he does make me laugh and he’s a nice guy. He’s not my usual type either but I don’t know if im actually attracted to him. Im the sort of person that just hates phone calls (and I told him this) but he constantly wants to be on the phone with me and insisting that I call him on his way back from work. He also said what he thought about bills/ roles in a marriage and I literally wanted to cut him off as I don’t agree. He wants a wife that pays 30% of the bills but also cooks and things but I’ve grown up in a household where it was just my mum and she played both roles so I want a case where me and my husband would be equals in everything. Am I thinking about this too or should I let it go if I’m not feeling right about the situation and I don’t agree from now?