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Stop having sex with him & keep pushing the hygiene issue. That's fucking gross.
Bad hygiene
Soooooooo
Idek know where to start! I guess I’m coming here for feedback!
My husband of 12 years (married7) has a body odor out of this world ! And I’m talking about between the balls and ass and his penis!
He used to take showers with no towel and didn’t dry off and I’m like babe here’s a dry towel or hey babe here’s a wash cloth.
He’s a big guy ! 6’0 250lbs! Like man you need to sudds up that towel with soap and body wash and scrub everywhere !!! He wants sex everybody night! I do too but not like that!
I told him multiple times like baby you need to shower and it’s a bad odor! I’m not giving you head and it smells bad! I’m so turned off! It’s like he just let himself go! His feet are always dirty even after the shower! Like are you washing your feet?? Or just hopping in and hopping out!
He got mad and said ok ok you want me to smell like flowers I get it ! He said it of course in a irritated voice but man idgaf! My ph balance has been off for months and I thought like damn I know he didn’t give me a disease!
Whole time it’s just his bad hygiene! He goes in bathroom and takes what they call a ho bath and cokes out saturated in cologne and lotion thinking it’s going to mask the smell!
I’m so over this! I’m so tired of him not being a clean man . He wasn’t like this before! But now he don’t care how he smells how he looks! He like hell we married I ain’t gotta do much …I’m so stressed over it because it’s affecting our love life! Well at least for me it is!
He took a shower one day and put the same dirty clothes he had back on !!! Helpppppp
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Ouuu girl, the only advice I can give is, first say “this is how we are going to talk, I say what I have to say and I will tell you when I’m done… theses are my thoughts and feelings” then tell him that your “done” then he can say what he wants to say but biggest thing NO INTERRUPTING!!!!!! Let him speak till he says he’s done… I would tell him if your not gonna wash your ass correctly then we are not having sex, or anything physical, if your not gonna actually clean yourself then it’s not gonna happen, then what you need to say is “the reason why I’m not doing this is because…” your ph balance is off, your vagina hurts, your having uti’s, it’s making you sick, whatever is going on with your body you tell him, and say that it’s a concern to your health. If you need to go to the obgyn and come back and tell him that the doctor said that if you keep having sex with an unclean partner, it will cause permanent damage 🤷🏻♀️ that’s all I can suggest! I’m sorry your having to deal with that
Yeah I would be so turned off! Stop having sex with him, stop kissing him. You've told him about this multiple times but he still doesn't care, I'm guessing he doesn't know that this can be a deal breaker? Just because he's married doesn't mean he can just let himself go.
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