20 year old mother to a 50 year old.
Hey ladies,
This is the first time I've vented, so I figured I'd get others opinions.
So I've had financial issues, and I live with my mother. We both work full time, but so far with my bills and having to pay most of the rent it's taking a blow to me and my savings. Plus I'm starting school that I have to pay for too.
I looked at my lease, and I've tried to end it earlier but that would leave me still having to pay the rest, which is absurd to me.
In the next several months, my lease is to be up and I can move..either with my mom, or my dad and his girlfriend (which my mom hates) where I don't have to pay rent.
I keep trying to get her to understand its not about her feelings, it's about mine and my well being. I feel like my mom is ruining our relationship. It's terrible now, I hate going home..and she's always nagging me about something. However, I am 20, I don't go out, I barely ever go to clubs and get drunk. My weekends consist of me and my family, and she still complains I'm not home enough. She just got a new boyfriend, so why would I want to third wheel it at home when I can be hanging with my family?
Emotionally and physically I'm tired of having the same conversation with her to get to understand what I mean..I can't live with her anymore because it's causing me more money than living on my own. She constantly asks me for money, it's like the roles have switched to a 360..
I respect my mother I do, DO NOT twist it, but to a certain extent, she has me do everything, her applications online, resume, and to paying most of the bills..it's becoming a lot for me.
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