Me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot . It’s just feels like he’s always trying to win an argument .

I asked him to please take off the movie bc I was kinda feeling a little bit of an anxiety attack ( thriller movies at 1am ) . I said “hey babe I NEED you TO please take it off it’s triggering my anxiety .

He proceeds to say “ “no look it’s about to finish “ I asked him again and said Well if the movie is triggering your anxiety why don’t you just breath “

I got upset that he said that bc it wasn’t that easy for me .

Every time I have something important I really need at that moment no questions asked . Instead of responding with acceptance over how I feel and what I need at the moment to feel better

“I need a hug “ “ I need you to make space for quality time “

He always end up saying I make a deal out of nothing yet I feel like I can’t get to a sentence without him telling me “ I’m making a big deal out of things “ or somewhere along those lines in circles until I walk away bc I’m frustrated from not being able to finish a sentence .

Then when I bring it up he says things like “ I did try to talk about it but you’re the one whose walking away “

This is making me physically want to be away from him and I don’t know if this is a relationship that could be saved or not .

( sometimes I think they’re honest mistakes bc he tends to forget things )