Stepfamilies

So my bf and I recently had a baby together..

My first sons dad and family are not in the picture at all anymore they’re just deadbeats.

So Christmas time, my bfs parents and brother/sister are very welcoming of my son. Which I am thankful for.

But two of his great aunts are not so much… and right now my son is only 4 and he prob would’ve noticed but he was running around playing so he didn’t see the aunts pass out the gifts.

But both of his aunts got all the actual grandkids a gift, including our new baby… but not my son.

How do you handle that? What do I tell my son when he’s older and wondering why all the other kids received a gift and not him? Or how should I handle it?