Had a party to go to but… daughter doesnt want to

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It’s raining where I’m at & my 4 year old doesn’t want to go to this party it’s a family type of party and my bf said I can stay home with her because she was acting up when I was trying to put her pants on then I told him no if I stay home then you need to stay home too. It was his friends birthday party he got drunk with him on Tuesday so if I have to stay home then so does he. & my daughter can act up & sometimes I don’t want to deal with it going out so we will sometimes stay home. yesterday she wanted to stay home & weeds then she was fine. This party isn’t a big deal to me anyways it is raining but my boyfriend trying to go & basically leave me to deal with our daughter so he can have fun. This friend every year has a party so it’s not like he’s missing anything and on top of that he just got drunk with his friend earlier this week.