43 and desperately trying

Anya

Hello ladies, I'm looking for some encouragement and positive stories as I feel de defeated. My husband and I have been trying forever. He's 48! I had an ectopic and miscarriages but I haven't had a chance to hold a single child. I've not gotten pregnant since 2020. And now I'm a whole week late (8days), spotting randomly and light cramping but getting negative pregnancy tests... is there still hope or is that a sign of menopause ?