How do you put your one year old to sleep?

Just curious about how you get your Bub to sleep now that they’re a one year old? Both for naps and bed… we sleep trained our girl previously and it worked so well but then we went on holidays for a month and since being back (about a month now) her sleep has just become quite challenging and fairly unpredictable. We started sleep training again about two weeks ago but only for bed time and I am just not sure it’s the right thing anymore. She gets so upset and it breaks my heart. We’ve been doing a gradual extinction method.. for naps, I pat her bum until she’s asleep. She often protests naps and/or takes ages to get to sleep. She’s still on two naps a day because less than that and she’s too irritable by the late afternoon.

What’s everyone else’s experiences? Recommendations, etc.

Honestly, I don’t mind cuddling her or patting her bum til she falls asleep, but when it takes an hour… I feel like I must be doing something wrong. 😔