Please Don’t Judge

Hi, where do I start? I’m hoping for some answers or insight. I’m 23. I’ve had two long term relationships with men and have three children. I’ve always been bi-curious but grew up in a religious home so never ever even let my mind think about women.

I’m newly single and have been with a girl once during a threesome but now, when I had a recent hookup I couldn’t get into it without thinking about girls…

Am I bi or…?