Feeling petty what would you do in this situation?

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I’m feeling petty. I like getting revenge. Dating is harder than it already needs to be and this guy is clearly an idiot.

I matched with a guy on bumble. Not the typical guy I’d go for. Saw a few red flags the first night we texted.

The next day I texted my best friend talking about him , sent screenshots and she realized she matched with him too. Right away we both realized he used the exact same compliments and love bombing shit on both of us. He used pity tactics to make us feel bad for him (girls didn’t think I was attractive so I gained weight , 65lbs in one year dude!!! 😀) 🙄🙄🙄🙄

We were both laughing about it. She said he ghosted her , she truly made plans to go see him and she went but was stood up.

I was about to leave it alone but I then started hearing from other girls through a source that they matched with him and would do the same thing. Then I started hearing about the possible excuses and lies he would tell for ghosting girls “my parents died in a car crash” “I got married but it wasn’t legal” one girl even told me that his sibling is really his daughter because he was married before. Idk how this guy is and what his mental problem is but I know he has one. Lying about your parents dying isn’t funny. I lost my dad and he passed away when I was 14. I wouldn’t dare lie to anyone about my parents dying inn a car crash.

I know he’s lying about his parents because he told my best friend that he lives with his parents.

So since he stood up my best friend I decided to plan a date with him and end up standing him up . But this guy really has his own agenda. He messaged me saying that he had a family emergency with his brother in law. That was yesterday . I asked him today if we were meeting up no response. The time came and went and I texted him saying I’m glad I didn’t waste gas or time getting ready. No response. I think he’s one of those people where if he gets seriously bored he will hit me up.

Seriously what is wrong with people these days?

I’ve done the work and been through some tough relationships and become less pick me. I’m glad my best friend also matched with him and we’ve been talking about this nut job. Otherwise I’d seriously be going crazy over this dude.

But seriously this guy is 34 years old. I have no hope for dating

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