Contradicting husband

I always have had an issue with my husband keeping it real with me. I found out he was bisexual after being married and together for about 13 years. Now whenever we see any homosexual stuff on tv he acts sooooo disturbed and it bothers me because hey you are bisexual and when we aren’t together or whatever I found you talking to other men. Had sexual relations with one when he was 16. He also hates biracial dating and gets sooooo upset when he sees a white man loving a black woman.( we are African American btw) but I say how can you hate this so much but dated white women and other women of different cultures before. ? He gets so mad and says having sex is different and he doesn’t morally approve of biracial dating and I’m bringing up his past. He starts yelling and getting aggressive whenever we talk about biracial dating. I’m all for love who loves you as long as you are happy and healthy. He gets so mad at me. Says he can’t express himself to me negatively. That is NOT THE ISSUE. The issue is him bashing people for doing things that he has done! Idk what to do but this is really bothering me how he is and after 13 years it gets old when your partner lives different lives behind your back 😞