Any one else feeling Discouraged?

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My partner and i have been trying for 8 months( 3 months on glo) but absolutly no luck! Im feeling tottaly discouraged! I check my temp, cervix, pee on an ovulation stick daily! My partner no longer looks forward to sex its just a job he must do. I feel like giving up!!! Anyone else in our boat? Please say that you are i feel like such a failure as a woman :(

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Yep although this is only my 3rd month TTC. Just amazes me all these years I've been preventing it and now that we want it it feels like it's taking forever! :/ Hard to believe how low your chances are each month.

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My husband and I have been trying for a year this month. Its become nearly a chore for us too, as we like to have sex when its more organic vs specific days that we must. My husband is also becoming a bit discouraged/disappointed too. I completely understand how you're feeling. It can be very hard on a couple! Lotsa good luck and baby dust your way!

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Ive been TTC for a little over 5 years now. 
​In July I didn't know I was pregnant (pretty much gave up at that point) until I went to the ER and found out I had an ectopic. That jump started me actively trying again and it is the hardest thing I have done. 
​My hubby knows I monitor and all that but I don't tell him when my fertile days are so there's no pressure on us when we BD. It's is hard but we have to keep the faith!

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Omg yes we've only been trying for four months but still we've been doing everything we can and still no luck :-/

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This is so hard! I'm in the same boat!! Been TTC now for almost two yrs with no luck.. I'm 5 days late on my AF and still testing BFN! Just wish one or the other will show up soon! Good luck to you ladies and Lots of Baby dust to you!!

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I'm in the same boat. We've been trying for 2 yrs we try everything opks, preseed, always bd on the right days and nothing yet :( I always feel like giving up. I've cried my eyes out and I always feel like it will never happen for me. We just have to keep trying

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I agree with everyone! 4 month ttc and still no luck. Just got married in october and want to start a family sooo bad! It hurts to see everyone around me popping out babies and telling us they are pregnant too!!

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Hi
​Don't lose hope. I got my BFP this month after 7 months of trying. Last month i tried really hard. I BD on the days it suggested and religiously used  OPKs. Was dishearteded when AF finally arrived after being four days late. 
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​ This month I didn't use OPKs and we BD when we wanted. See if you can "get in the mood" to BD to make it less of a chore. I tried the seven seas pre natals this month ( I was using the pregnacare brand on and off for two months) and I made an effort to drink lots of water - tried to finish at least  one glass of water with dinner. 
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​Good luck.

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I am feeling the same i almost going to  have. 11 mnths ttc and. Still no baby. Getting discouraged and very very sad i even cry

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My husband and I have been trying for almost 2 years. I chart with fertility friend mostly and have been experimenting with glow on the side for a couple months. We have tried 3 months of IUI with Clomid and still no luck. We got pregnant in December of 2012 but miscarried after 7 weeks. It's a tough journey for some of us. 
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​My only advice to make sex not seem like such a chore is rather than planning sex around ovulation plan a few dates around ovulation. Even if it's just packing a lunch or dinner from home and taking a blanket to the park in your neighborhood, it will make it more fun.

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