Babies before career? Or not?
I recently graduated from college and cannot find a job in my desired field. There are jobs available, just not locally. I would have to move to get a job. Meanwhile I'm working online. Doing some freelance work and running my own business. My bf also graduated from college and has steady work and has many job opportunities in this area.
Does it make sense to have kids before I find a job so I can devote all of my time to them since I work from home. And then relocate for work when they are a few years old? Or would it make sense to start a job and then stop for a few years to take care of them?
Has anyone had a similar situation or thoughts on this?