Letting nature take its course

So I had my implanon out 1 August and was monitoring everything like a crazy person (I'm 26 and husband is 28) in a very short period of time took 4 pregnancy tests all of which were bfn and it destroyed my soul!! I've since realised that I'm young and healthy and other then checking for fertile days and recording period dates I'm just gonna see what happens. I'm hoping that if I don't think about bfp too much my body will relax a bit and it will happen at the right time. We both want this so bad so baby dust to all and good luck