Does this mean I lost my virginity?

Question

I was hanging out with a guy friend one night and we were drinking. After a few drinks we started to mess around. Making out turned into a bj and that turned into getting in the shower. In the shower he tried to do anal but I think he went to far up. I just know I bled from my vagina the rest of the night (not period bleeding). What do y'all think?

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I think of you have to ask this question you shouldn't be having sex

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I really hope that you like that guy and that that guy respects you. Be safe and use condoms. Don't feel too depressed or anything what is done is done you can't do anything about it now. But whatever it is that you do make sure you respect yourself and have boundaries. If he asks to have sex with you again just know that you DONT have to say yes. You owe nothing to him so feel free to say no at any time.

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I'm just a tad interested on how you don't know if something went into your butt or your vagina?

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Well only you Hun knows if he put it up your bum or vagina?
​ I sure as hell could tell the difference!
​A penis dosent just slide up the anus for the first time you need lots of lube lol xx
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Having anal sex even if you didn't do it vaginally would be a hard sell to convince me you are still a virgin. But it sounds like you had both. So definitely no you are not a virgin. Hopefully you were using protection. Pregnancy is one worry but let's not forget all the STDs out there.

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Yup it's gone.

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From what you described, yes you lost your virginity.

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All I'm really looking for is a yes or no. Thanks.

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Virginity is a social construct. If you didn't have p-in-v sex, or penetrative sex, and wish to still consider yourself a virgin, no one can stop you.

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Ok but she's asking for help so give it to her. Yes sounds like you did

Does this mean I lost my virginity?

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