Is it ok ?

Me and my bf have been together for almost 4 years and we've been sexually active for 3 years. I've noticed that he just wants to get straight to the point . He doesn't "love" me during sex . (Idk if I'm making myself clear?) Like I feel like there's no love making anymore. We just have sex . And it seems like his only goal is to finish(cum)and then it's over . It wasn't like this before. I love it when he takes his time to love me. And I feel like he doesn't anymore. What is your opinion? ?