Should i give him a bj?

Question

In 15 and I have a boyfriend who wants me to give him a blow job and I haven't done it because I'm not sure if I should. I know he wouldn't tell people and I'm not scared and it's not like I'm not ready. I'm just nervous if I don't do it right or if it's the wrong thing to do. We have not had sex but we have done other things excluding blow jobs.

Answer

At 15 the only thing you should be giving boys is the answer to last night's homework. If you start that now, and you guys don't last he's gonna tell people, then the next boy you date will want a bj too along with more because he's gonna want you to make him feel like he's the one & that you'd do anything for him. Its how guys work. I wouldn't do it. I'd hold off until I was little older. 
You don't seem ready if you're having to ask that question.

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I was nervous when I first gave my boyfriend one. I was scared that I wouldn't do it right or he wouldn't enjoy it or that I wouldn't compare to his past girlfriend. I knew I wanted to be with him forever so I thought it should happen sooner than later. We had a talk about it before hand and he told me I had nothing to worry about. He told me that he loved me whether I was good at it or not. So I gave him one and he told me it was the best one he has ever gotten and he was a bit confused as to why I was so good. But he has been the only person I have ever given to and now I do it whenever he wants. You just have to be comfortable with yourself and him. Don't stress it.

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Personally, I think there's a difference between not being ready and being nervous about whether you'll do it right. For the first time you're probably not gonna know exactly what you're doing and that's okay, he's not gonna hold it against you. Do what makes you feel comfortable, don't put yourself under pressure over something like this and do it only if it's something you want to do. As long as you don't bite him, I'm sure he'll have a blast and you'll learn from the experience.

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If you're  questioning it then you should probably wait until you really know it is what you want to do. If it's something you want to do and he's not pressuring you into then I guess there shouldn't be anything stopping you, just me smart, use good judgement and don't feel like you need to rush into things. How long have you been with him and how old is he, just out of curiosity?

Should i give him a bj?

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