Horrible pregnancy reminders after M/C

I've had three MCs this year and the most ironic thing of all is getting a reminder via email from Babycenter about what my first pregnancy would have progressed to had I remained pregnant. Worst of all, I can't turn off the reminders because I lost my password and ID ugh. So tired of feeling abnormal and less of a woman. Had this been the middle ages, my husband would have left me or taken on a second wife.