First time

I have been dating my boyfriend for about five months now and lately I've been thinking that we could be ready to go all the way. We are both 20 years old and virgins and have been experimenting with each other sexually for a few months, but have been saving sex for when we're both 100 percent ready. We are open with each other and have no problem talking about birth control or anything like that. Anyway, I've felt ready to go all the way with him for a while now and he's said/ done things lately that make me think he might be ready too. I would love to know what to expect during my first time. I would be on the pill and he would wear a condom, but I am concerned about the level of pain I might feel and how to make sure we're both relaxed so we can enjoy such a special moment. What should I expect?
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Ta

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The pain for me wasn't that bad but my boyfriend at the time fingered me for a little while first as well as performed oral so all I can Recommend is dont skip foreplay it can help relax you, and can make it easier for the both of you.

Re

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For me it wasn't really pain. Slight discomfort but like other have said make a day or night of it. Find time when you don't have to do anything and take all the time you want and need. For my husband and me, we where both virgins too.... Share the moment! :-)

Ha

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My first time it hurt me so bad I didn't let him put it all the way in, took about 5 times having sex for the pain to stop, so of course the sex was awkward cause I kept pushing him off cause the pain lol but it's not like this for everyone haha 

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Han • Sep 26, 2014
4 years of painful sex? What did your Dr say?

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Briana • Sep 26, 2014
Took me about 4 yrs!

St

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In my experience, the first time was pretty painful.  But just go slow and remember it gets better.