Hmm how do I prevent myself from fighting?

Question

So last night for some reason I think my hormones are going crazy because me and my fiance got in a fight about salad dressing! It wasnt even a little fight it became a huge argument and we completely talked it over and relized how dumb it was and thinking about it today makes me kinda laugh. Honestly how do I prevent myself from fighting so much!? Like we really love each other but we are hittting a point where ifwe get in a big enough fight it could end things :o and i'm afraid that happen around the wedding since planning it, is incredibly stressful!

Answer

This has happened a lot in my relationship.... the best thing we found worked was to go into different rooms for a few minutes, even hours, until we knew we could talk things calmly without getting dramatic. When that didn't happen we'd normally pick at each other's weak spots, and that never ends well.

Answer

Pick and choose your battles. When you find yourself getting upset about something take a breath and ask  yourself is this really worth fighting about? More than likely the answer will be no. Also was it really the salad dressing that angered you or is that just a symptom of something else? I don't know what your fighting style is like but if it consists of screaming and yelling then you really need to work on your communication. Maybe take up yoga or meditation so you can learn how to get to a peaceful and centered place before you explode.

Answer

Don't let it be stressful babe, it doesn't have to be. Find a friend who is really good at organising things. Don't bombard him with a hundred things to look at. Find a few things you want then just show him those options. As for the fighting?? Is there a common denominator?

Hmm how do I prevent myself from fighting?

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