So tired...

I feel like my relationship is wearing on me like I never know what man I am coming home to will he be happy or not now I'm not saying he is abusive at all he just seems to change day by day. I love him and I know he loves me but I don't know what to do he never makes time to romance we hardly date anymore and he is always staring at a tv screen I want the romance and dating back! What can I do to help we also don't have a sex life at the moment and that its wearing as well I feel pent up and anxious although I have tried master bating its not the same as having someone's undivided attention! So what do I do ladies help me!