I want to be kissed on the neck.. I want passion..I want to be close and lost. My boyfriends hygiene turns me off to the point that I can't stand even a kiss on the cheek. I don't know how to tell him without him getting pissed off and ignoring me. I need help. The first time we were completely alone in his house we had the closest most passionate night ever but that was 3 years ago.. He has gotten laid off and now lives with me and my grandparents. His room is gross and his hygiene is worse. He stopped shaving down there. Even though he knows I can't stand it. He doesn't brush or shower regularly. Hes 22 years old and I don't know what made him this way. It didn't always use to be this way. I've tried buying a new electronic toothbrush and deodorant. Nothing helps.