I don't know anymore - venting

Af is due 10/6 (glow), 10/7 (ff), 10/11 (ovia). We bd'd before and during ovulation, both healthy and athletic. I am in my mid 20's. Only our 2nd month - I took a hpt today and it was negative. Hubby is just telling me to relax, and I have been, but all my friends are either pregnant or just now announcing they are. We haven't told anyone we are ttc, I just feel alone. I bought preseed just in case for next month and hubby said we didn't need it. Hoping af doesn't come! Maybe I just need to know I have support for the down days - I don't want to drive him crazy. He already has a kid, but I want one of our own too. I just want it to be my month.