Don't take this the wrong way but reading all of these comments, what ever happened to marriage BEFORE babies? Why is everyone trying for kids before they have the most important step, marriage? Babies without stable homes/ stable parents is gonna end badly & we see it in 97% of the kids in this generation. 
​And yes, I'm one of those kids. I grew up without a dad. 
​Marriage is the most important step. Your spouse comes before anyone, including your kids. 
​I'm sure I'll get a lot of hate for this one.