How do I tell him I'm a virgin?

Question

I have been dating a guy for three months now. He is my first real boyfriend (and he knows this). I'm 24 and he is 25. He has been really patient and considerate with me, going at my speed (which is slow! It took two months/10 dates before we kissed and agreed we wanted to be exclusive.) I feel like everything is progressing naturally and comfortably (emotionally and physically), and because we've been taking things slow, he really likes me for me and not just my body!! 
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​We have yet to discuss sex. I haven't told him I'm a virgin but I'm sure he can guess. Whenever we stay in, it mostly results in us cuddling and making out for hours. I know I want to lose my virginity to him and I'm so happy it will be him. Not yet, but when I'm ready. I'm just not sure when would be an appropriate time to tell him I'm still a virgin. Advice? 
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​Thanks!!

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Don't think about having sex with him until you can think about sitting down with him and telling him what you wanna say. It's all an exercise in trust. 
If he's worth his salt, he'll make you feel comfortable all the time anyway, right?

So, pick your moment, some quiet night in together and let him know. If he's a good guy, he'll be cool and make you feel special and cared about in that moment.

Don't be overly concerned with breaking this news, he sounds/seems decent so far, right? He's gonna just be pleased you feel you can tell him personal things and it will help build trust, which in turn will make your sex life, as and when you're ready to start one, all the more exciting and explosive!!

Good luck! :)

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Like you said just go with the flow. If you feel as though he already knows it won't be a big deal when you tell him. Some guys find virginity and vulnerability extremely attractive and dare I say erotic. Maybe when you think the time is at hand to have sex with him spring it on him in the heat of the moment. If you don't think that would be a good situation maybe instead when you guys are just hanging out and talking when you feel close to him. He will understand. Good luck!

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It sounds like he knows and he's waiting to let you move in that direction when your comfortable, you can either sit him down and just say hey look I just wanted to clear the air and make sure were on the same page and let him know or wait til the topic comes up naturally , personally I'd bring it up so that he knows sooner rather than later plus then the "how will he react" won't be weighing on you

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You have saved it this long...wait for the perfect prince that puts a ring on it! P.s. We are all proud of you for waiting till YOU are ready!

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Wait til your married....

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I agree with Kimberly... you've held out this long u should wait til ur married i sure wish i would have....plus i dnt kno this lucky guy but u dnt want him to start seeing it as a new goal or putting pressure on the situation... at the end of the day its up to u but i think u should go ahead n wait virginity is a beautiful thing...i want mine back lol

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In the nearby future you should tell him. Then he won't wonder why all this time he's been with you and hasn't went all the way. Your honesty will improve the relationship

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I think you can tell him anytime. If you see that he is the right one and he is so patient as you said he will understand you and wait as long as you want. But anyway dont hurry with loosing your virginity. :)

How do I tell him I'm a virgin?

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