My husband and I had tried for 3 months to get pregnant. I had a heathy diet and stopped caffeine/alcohol to be ready for the pregnancy. I wanted to be extra safe. We had no luck. On month 4 I decided to have some wine, drink my coffee, and relax. I'm now newly pregnant!!! We're so ecstatic! I realized I just needed to live my normal life and change sutlely, not drastically. Now that I'm pregnant I stopped the caffeine and alcohol obviously. None the less my advise would be relax, enjoy the process, and know when you're ovulating.