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Found porn on my fiancé phone... Honestly I thought he stop watching it when he moved in with me but it hasn't.... I give him sex ALL the time I don't know what to think of this... I am kind of done finding it in plain sight without him just talking to me about it. And yes I trust him 100% but I needed to search something up on his phone and it was the first page on the browser .. :/ I need advice guys...

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I'd rather my man watch porn than to go out and physically touch someone with his ding-a-ling.

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Everyone needs their personal time. You didn't see actual pictures or videos from a real woman? I'd say it's not really a big deal.

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Porn is not "natural", its not "normal male behavior". Just because it's more readily available and more accepted everywhere these days (thanks to the internet) doesn't mean it's OK. If it's hurtful to you, it's a problem, and it needs to be addressed or it will eat away at your relationship. Talk to him a d tell him exactly how it makes you feel. Best of luck!

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If it bothers you then it's not okay. My DH has an issue with this and it bothers me greatly. I would suggest you talk to him about it and find a solution that you are both okay with. This has worked great for us. Communication is key!

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If your sexual needs are neglected and he rather watch porn, then its a real problem. I think all men watch porn even ones in happy relationships with great sex lives. I gave up worrying about why as long as I get good sex and loving them oh well. Porn should not consume a man's every waking moment,  if so he has an addiction.

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Everybody watches porn. It's healthy and natural. I even watch it. It doesn't matter how much sex you get or give sometimes it's just better by yourself or you're horny and alone or there's a scenario that he likes but is too afraid to ask for it from you.

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I wouldn't put to much worry into it. my husband has it on his phone. men are weird, they can't help it, they just like naked...

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I had a similar situation. I got super angry and started going crazy on him because him and I agreed that we will not watch porn. We had an agreement I'm not sure if you guys did. If you have had one then make sure you give a hell of a talk if you didn't have an agreement about no porn watching then talk about it and tell him how it makes you feel.

Hope that helps :)

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Porn can also be a way for him to express secret fetishes for him. Not necessarily anything he wants to do but just things that he knows are taboo. From what I understand from what my DH has said, it's like the fear of getting caught when you skip school. So long as he doesn't throw it in your face and is not sleeping with anyone else, it's not anything to worry about.

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I would rather he didn't watch it tbh but I'd rather that than finding someone as long I'm  not missing out it wouldn't be so bad tho if I did see it myself I'd be guttered

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